What if your little boy or girl wants to pursue a major in theatre? What about their dreams and aspirations? He or she did not ask to be created, YOU and their father created them. If you are pregnant, then you are already a mother. It is your first duty as a mother to protect your child, even if that protection comes at the cost of your own dreams and aspirations. But I’m going to let you in on a little secret: you can be a mother and still attain your goals in life. Shocking, I know. As an example, Marissa Mayer was pregnant while serving as the CEO of Yahoo. Isn’t it interesting that she could run a Fortune 500 company without having to kill her child?