No, adoption is not abandonment. Hence the term ‘adoption’. Adoption means that someone else is caring for your child as if your child was their own. No abandonment has occurred. Abortion is abandonment. Your child was cared for by you, but then you removed that care and they died. Adoption does not result in the death of a child, abortion does.
If abortion makes you the mother of a dead child, then by your logic adoption makes you the mother of an abandoned child.
Yeah, thats kind of how it works dipshit