This ask references this ask.
You are buying in to the demonization of the messenger. It is a complete fallacy that the Pro-Life community writ large does not care for children once born. We focus our efforts on the children facing poisoning or slaughter because they have no protection under the law. If your child was on fire, would you first try to extinguish the flames or would you take the time to donate money to a children’s burn unit before saving her life?
Every movement, every organization, and every society has a few ‘bad apples’ that misrepresent their intent or values. Stop focusing on the tiny minority to justify your position. Instead of standing by while innocent children are dying all around you, perhaps you should stand in their defense. Though I am not religious, I know that you are. So ask yourself, what would Jesus do?