I don’t know who else to tell this to so I will just rant here because no one will read it……
So I was super happy and confident with my decision to have sex with my boyfriend about two weeks ago and now I’m freaking out. We used protection because I’m not stupid but my period was supposed to come two days ago and it still hasn’t and I’ve worked myself into a panicked frenzy that I might be pregnant and I can’t deal with that because I have school and I’m too young and he and I just started dating so he sure as hell wouldn’t want a kid with me and I know my family would think I’m a whore even if I said I had had sex much less if I was pregnant so I can’t tell them. And I’ve always been anti abortion but if it comes down to that I wouldn’t know what else to do. And I’m so scared… so so scared. And I’ve been crying non stop whenever my family isn’t around and I don’t know how long I can hold it together.
Take a deep breath and stop making this all about you. If you are pregnant, you are a mother NOW, and a mother’s first responsibility is to her child – period. Your child’s life eclipses what anyone else thinks, wants, desires, or believes. You were once an unborn child and you were protected and cared for. You owe your child nothing less. You can do this, I promise you. And you can still accomplish anything you desire in life.
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