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anonymous:
I messaged you a few months ago, so you probably don’t remember me. I am only staying pregnant because my sister wants it. You said that I will start to like it, that was still wrong. I still can’t wait to get it removed.
I asked you not to refer to it as mine, but you elected to ignore. I also kept fainting these past few days, so my sister thought something was wrong, but it turns out that it’s because I’m not eating enough (which I can’t do because I can’t eat without being sick, so essentially it’s doing it to itself).
They did a scan to make sure it was still alive and in normal health, which it is apart from being small, they also found out it’s gender, but since it’s early they can’t be 100% sure. I have a meeting with a psychologist in the new year because they think I am at risk of harming myself.
Also, the person I had sex with has said he agrees with the decision that we are having nothing to do with it. Though my sister has agreed to let him see it if he would ever wish to. That’s about it, I think. Merry Fucking Christmas. Is there anything I missed? (Sorry for spamming you, but you’re the only person other than my overbearing sister I can talk about this to).
cultureshift:
As I told you before, you are making the right decision. There really is no other choice to make if you are a moral human being. Although you are currently the person responsible for protecting and nurturing the child growing within you, I will honor your request and refer to him or her as your sister’s child. In other words, you are carrying your niece or nephew right now. How exciting is that? I am not aware of any other situation like yours. And that is what it sometimes takes to make an unwanted pregnancy work: thinking outside of the box.
You are a hero to me and I am sure you are a hero to most of the rest of the world. The only people who will dismiss you are those who desire every unwanted pregnancy to end in the death of the child. This is the only solution their depraved minds can accept. You have risen above their sad world view and have embraced the beauty of life. You are an amazing human being and I know that your niece or nephew is going to absolutely love you.
How to Birth Your Niece or Nephew
