I just wanted to thank everyone for all the support you’ve all shown me. Everyone who has reached out to me – thank you. I appreciate all your open, non-judgmental support. It means the world.
I just wanted to say that I have not made a decision yet. I have my 1st appointment to move forward with my abortion scheduled. I also have a prenatal scan/check up scheduled.
I think I want to see my ultrasound at the abortion clinic, as I think it would help me make up my mind. I don’t want to make my decision with no knowledge. I want to know the truth of my actions. Plus I want to know if maybe seeing it will change my boyfriend’s mind.
As well, it’s getting harder for my, as my appointment won’t be until I’m 7 weeks. I also know that if I am not put under, I couldn’t do it.
A lot of people have been saying “make the choice for you!” And I think, at the beginning, that’s what I did. But my boyfriend told me to put us first. The best thing for our relationship is not to have a baby, I know that. How can I just make the choice for me when it’s my boyfriend’s baby as well?
I also know that I’m extremely emotionally fragile, having just worked through a huge personal trauma that happened to me the beginning of last year. Which resulted in extreme anxiety and having to drop out of school. I just don’t want to ruin what I just got back (back in university, and conquered all – but one – of my anxieties)
Hi there :)
I just wanted to let you know a few things. Ideally I could send you a message privately but apparently I haven’t been following you long enough to send fanmail.
I was wondering if you’d like to see what the unborn looks like at 7 weeks.
I also was wondering if you’d like access to legal support. Being coerced into an abortion is illegal, and if you dont want an abortion you cannot be forced to have one.
You are already the mother of a living human being. Your son or daughter is growing inside of you right now and is depending on you to fulfill your responsibilities as their mother.
Many mothers later regret killing their child. It will haunt you for the rest of your life. I have yet to hear a story about a mother who gave birth to her child and felt guilty for it. You can have an amazing life with your amazing son or daughter.
You must use empathy to hear your child. He or she needs your love, all you have to do is provide it.
To speak to someone right now about this decision please call the Option Line at 1.800.712.HELP. They can help you and your child make it through this challenging time.
You are much stronger than many will lead you to believe. You CAN be a great mother AND have a great life. Believe in yourself.
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