Fix your internalized misogyny, I assume you’re a woman cuz I don’t want some guy I don’t know telling me what to do with my vagina, vulva and uterus and how to run my life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You can do whatever you want with your vagina and vulva. You can even do whatever you want with your uterus so long as there’s not another human being living inside of it.
Is it really too much to ask that you give nine months of your life for nine decades of another’s?