My sister had the same beliefs as you, that an unborn child was as important as a born one and has the same right to life. At 4 weeks in she was told that if she did not get an abortion she would not make it through this pregnancy. She ignored the warning and carried on with the pregnancy. She died at 24 weeks, the baby died with her. You say that a pregnant woman shouldn’t be able to kill the human being inside, then pray to tell, why should it be able to kill her.
I am so sorry for the heartbreaking loss of your sister and your niece or nephew. I have stated in previous posts that the ONLY exception for putting a prenatal child’s life at risk is if their mother’s life is in grave physical danger and her death is imminent. In these cases, every effort should be made to save both the mother and her child. The decision to take on the risk of continuing with the pregnancy must be the mother’s and the mother’s alone.
You should be extremely proud of your sister. She loved her child, even before she could see them. She stood for what she rightly believed in and was willing to make the ultimate sacrifice for another. These are rare traits in today’s fallen world.
Your sister is a HERO and an inspiration to all of us.